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🌟 Unveiling the Unique Characters of Siblings: An unexpected Ice Skating Tale! 💖

🌟 Unveiling the Unique Characters of Siblings: An unexpected Ice Skating Tale! 💖

Explore the Joys of Parenting and the Beauty of Sibling Diversity! 🚀

Michelle Lim
October 30, 2023

Dear Mindfull Parents,

Many of you may find yourselves in the delightful whirlwind of parenting more than one child. It's an incredible journey filled with unique challenges and blessings, especially when it comes to understanding and nurturing each child's distinct character.

Recently, in our family, we embarked on an adventure that allowed us to rediscover the character traits of our two daughters. It all began when Big A, our eldest, started voicing her top request over the last few months—she wanted to try ice skating. My heart swelled with excitement, as I have fond memories of gliding on ice during my own childhood in The Netherlands.

Photo by Joao Viegas on Unsplash

The day arrived, and it was our girls' first time lacing up ice skates. It was on that glistening ice that their characters truly unfurled before our eyes.

Big A, as we've come to know her, has always been the one to take her time, to navigate life's challenges at her own pace. However, what sets her apart is her unwavering determination and her willingness to put in the hard work. It's a quality we admire and hope she never lets go of, for it distinguishes her from those who might seem naturally "gifted." Her persistence will undoubtedly pave her way to future success. We couldn't help but swell with pride as we watched her grasp the art of ice skating within a mere two-hour session, with minimal support.

Photo by Alysha Rosly on Unsplash

Small A, on the other hand, greeted the ice with skepticism and negativity. She spent over an hour convincing herself that it wouldn't work, accompanied by a tantrum and a long face. Small A's journey often demands a different approach than Big A's. Sometimes, it calls for tough love and a firm hand. Thankfully, my husband balances my approach with his gentler touch, making us a formidable team when it comes to guiding our youngest through her challenges. After a bit of persistence and some patient coaxing, we finally saw a spark of determination in her eyes during the last 40 minutes, as she took her first wobbly strides on the ice.

Photo by Hunter Johnson on Unsplash

As parents, we are constantly reminded that our children are unique individuals, each with their own set of strengths and challenges. It's a beautiful journey of discovery, one that teaches us to adapt our parenting styles to meet the diverse needs of our beloved offspring.

So, if you ever find yourself grappling with character differences among your children, know that you're not alone. Be kind, have patience and faith. It's an enriching part of the parenting adventure that allows us to learn, grow, and love unconditionally.

Don’t forget to reserve those limited seats at my upcoming mindful parenting workshop THIS SUNDAY! https://forms.gle/RtaF7YdbNiRUiZXa6

Mindful Parenting Workshop happening on 4 November 2023

Also, I am honoured to be part of SkinComm’s event as one of their partners. If you would like to meet the esteemed author Lim Hai Yen and learn more about keeping healthy relationships, then drop by their event happening on 11 November 2023.