Lessons from Little Teachers: 10 Things My Children Have Taught Me

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This week, I found myself reflecting on the countless lessons I’ve picked up from my children. Parenthood is, in many ways, a journey back to the basics—a chance to unlearn, relearn, and rediscover life’s essentials through the eyes of those who are still untouched by adulthood’s layers. Here are 10 things my children have taught me that I hope resonate with you too.

1. Resilience 💪

Children have this incredible ability to bounce back, whether they’re tackling an illness or dealing with a fall. Sure, there may be tears, but most of the time, they’re back on their feet, ready to try again. I’m continually inspired by their resilience to face each challenge with fresh courage.

2. Self-Love 🌻

How often do we, as adults, criticise ourselves, only to forget that our children mirror us? They inherit our features, habits, and quirks—and our doubts. By learning to love myself, I show them that they’re worthy of love too, even on days when it feels hard.

3. Patience ⏰

Our children have a near-endless supply of patience for us, yet I sometimes catch myself sighing or getting frustrated when they need things repeated. Now, I pause, breathe, and remind myself to mirror their patience. After all, they’re watching, learning, and reflecting our behaviour.

4. Forgiveness ❤️‍🩹

Parenthood is a steep learning curve, and I make my share of mistakes. Apologising to my kids is a new experience, but every time I do, I’m met with empathy: “It’s okay, mummy. We all have bad days.” Their grace teaches me to let go, forgive, and move forward with a full heart.

5. Wonder 🌟

Remember the awe of discovering something new? Children live in that space. Through their eyes, I see the world’s colours, sounds, and textures anew—little reminders not to let the beauty of life slip by unnoticed.

6. Imagination 💭

Unstructured, imaginative time: when was the last time we let ourselves get swept up in it? My children’s pretend play has become my invitation back to creativity, reminding me of the joy in dreaming, building, and exploring.

7. Adaptability 🤸‍♂️

While I sometimes resist change, my kids adapt so readily, whether it’s moving into a new school or adjusting to a new routine. Watching them makes me see how I, too, can embrace flexibility and openness when life disrupts my plans.

8. Gratitude 💌

In the small, everyday moments, my children express thanks in ways that I once overlooked. A hug, a smile, a “thank you”—they’re reminders to appreciate the little gestures of gratitude, recognising them and letting them fill my heart.

9. Mindfulness 🫂

In their requests for undivided attention, my children teach me to be truly present. The phone down, the mind quieted, I’m reminded that these moments of closeness are fleeting and worth treasuring.

10. Unconditional Love 💯❣️

No matter how we look, what we do, or how we feel, their love is always there—unconditional and steadfast. They love without expecting anything in return, teaching me to bring that same love to all my relationships.

With warmth and mindfulness,

Michelle Lim | Reparenting Life Coach - I help you break the generational trauma cycle and support inner child healing.

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