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“I hate my family. When will this end?”
These were my words as a child. Here’s what they taught me about silence, reparenting, and finding my voice.
Dear MindFull Readers,
Two weekends ago, I spoke at SG60: Voices from the Heart Volume 4.
It was only 10 minutes, but in those 10 minutes, I revisited my childhood dinner table in the Netherlands, the silence I carried, and the desperate diary entries of a girl who once wrote:
“I hate my family. When will this end?”
The room fell quiet. And afterwards, people came to me with one simple reaction: “That was powerful.”
It reminded me of something I hold close: when we share from the heart, we don’t give people a finished story. We give them a mirror.
SG60: Voices from the Heart.
That’s the power of reparenting, too. It’s not about having the perfect script. It’s about pausing, noticing, and asking ourselves: What did I most need as a child? And how can I give that to myself now?
I’ll leave you with that question today: What would change if you gave yourself what you most needed as a child? 🩵
With warmth and mindfulness,
Michelle Lim | Reparenting Coach
I help you break free from generational trauma and nurture a new cycle of emotional safety by reparenting your inner child.
P.S. Ready to explore whether reparenting coaching is right for you? Ready to break some generational trauma cycles?
Book a free 30-minute Healing & Growth Call. No pressure, just a heart-to-heart:
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Michelle Lim | Mother of 3 | Multi-Coach | Founder of The MindFull Parent | Writer | Preschool Educator | Babywearing Specialist | Breastfeeding Mentor
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