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Healing Isn’t Linear. Sometimes It Starts in a Dream.
The past came knocking in my sleep—and I answered with truth.
Hello MindFull Readers,
Some nights ago, I had a dream that stayed with me even after I woke up.
In it, I was confronting my stepfather—calmly but firmly. We have a very complex relationship, which I have never dared to speak about prior to this. So, in this dream I was drawing clear boundaries, something I had never been able to do when I was younger. There was no screaming. No chaos. Just… clarity and power. A quiet power in choosing myself.
And when I opened my eyes this morning, I was greeted by something far softer—my beautiful family. All three of my children smiling at me. That moment felt like balm for my soul.
But my body still carried the weight of something. My shoulder—still painfully stiff and immobile—seems to be holding onto emotions I haven’t quite released yet. Our bodies remember what our minds try to forget. Sometimes, when we can’t speak the truth out loud, our bodies speak for us.

Like I mentioned, I know my relationship with my stepfather has always been a complex one. There were things that were never said. Feelings I tucked away because they didn’t feel safe to express. But last night’s dream felt like a reckoning. My subconscious, maybe even my inner child, saying: “It’s time.”
Time to honour the girl who never got to draw those boundaries.
Time to listen to what the body has been trying to say.
Time to soften into healing, instead of pushing through the pain.
And maybe this message isn’t just for me.
Maybe it’s for you too.
💭 Have you ever had a dream that felt like a message from your past self?
💭 Are there unspoken boundaries your body has been holding onto?
💭 What would it feel like to finally speak them aloud?
This healing journey is not linear—and sometimes, it begins in the quiet of the night, in dreams that feel more real than memory.
If something within this resonates with you, I want to invite you to explore it further. I offer free 30-minute Healing & Growth calls, where we can gently uncover what your body, mind, or inner child might be longing to express.
You don’t have to carry it all alone anymore. 🩵
With warmth and mindfulness,
Michelle Lim | Reparenting Life Coach - I help you transform your generational trauma cycle to become a positive generational cycle while embracing your inner child.
P.S. If you'd like to set up a free, 30-minute, no obligation, Healing & Growth Call with me to explore whether I am the right Reparenting Life Coach for you please book a slot at this link https://calendly.com/michelle-lim-tmp/healing-and-growth-call

Michelle Lim | Mother of 3 | Multi-Coach | Founder of The MindFull Parent | Writer | Preschool Educator | Babywearing Specialist | Breastfeeding Mentor
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