Building Your Village: Support and Strength for Single Parents

Dearest MindFull Readers,

Today, I want to share a bit about my journey as a single parent and the challenges that came with it. If you're navigating the world of single parenting, know that you're not alone.

For me, the biggest challenge was time. I vividly remember the days when every moment was a race against the clock, trying to juggle routine tasks and still find time for myself. Looking back, I’m grateful for those experiences because they taught me efficiency and resourcefulness. I thought I was already resilient and mentally strong, but single parenting took it to another level.

Here’s a glimpse of what my weekdays looked like with my two daughters:

• 6:45am - Wake up and get ready

• 7:00am - Wake the kids and get them ready

• 7:30 am - School run

• 8:30 am - Start work

• 5:00 pm - End work and pick up the kids

• 6:00 pm - Another school run

• 6:15 pm - Prepare or buy dinner

• 6:45 pm - Dinner time

• 7:15 pm - Shower time

• 7:45 pm - Bedtime routine

• 9:00 pm - House chores

• 11:00 pm - End of the day

At 11 pm, I often found myself revenge scrolling through social media, trying to carve out a bit of ‘me time’ after a long day. Weekends were no less hectic, filled with gymnastics and other activities for my girls. I also juggled several side hustles to ensure I could provide for my daughters. Sometimes, they’d accompany me on late-night work sessions.

I won’t lie – it was exhausting and often overwhelming. I became an expert at making it look easy, but inside, I was struggling. Many nights ended in tears, as I grappled with how to create the best life for my girls and myself. Despite the challenges, I was determined to handle my divorce in a healthier way than my parents did.

Are you a single parent or do you know a friend who is in a similar situation? Here’s a little nugget to share: it takes a village not only to raise a child but also to support a parent. Our society needs this village to protect our mental health and share the burden, yet it’s often missing. For those without a support system, even small gestures can make a big difference.

If any of this resonates with you and you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you. Let’s connect through a Healing & Growth Call whenever you’re ready.

In the meantime, I’m sending you strength and hope. Bit by bit, we can reach our full potential.

If you'd like to set up a free, 30-minute, no obligation, Healing & Growth Call with me to explore whether I am the right Reparenting Life Coach for you please book a slot at this link https://calendly.com/michelle-lim-tmp/healing-and-growth-call

With warmth and mindfulness,

Michelle Lim | Founder of The MindFull Parent | Reparenting Life Coach

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